Finding Happiness by Cultivating Positive Emotions
interview by Angela Winter, from the Sun
Most scientists who study emotions focus on negative
states: depression, anxiety, fear. Psychologist Barbara Fredrickson has
spent more than 20 years investigating the relatively uncharted terrain
of positive emotions, which she says can make us healthier and happier
if we take time to cultivate them.
Fredrickson’s findings are the subject of her new book, Positivity
(Crown). Though its title might make it sound like a self-help best seller,
the book doesn’t belong in the pop-psychology section, and Fredrickson
is no Pollyanna telling us to put on a smile before leaving the house
each morning. Negative emotions, she says, are necessary for us to flourish,
and positive emotions are by nature subtle and fleeting; the secret is
not to deny their transience but to find ways to increase their quantity.
She recommends that, rather than try to eliminate negativity, we balance
negative feelings with positive ones. Below a certain ratio of positive
to negative, Fredrickson says, people get pulled into downward spirals,
their behavior becomes rigid and predictable, and they begin to feel burdened
and lifeless.
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